Education is possibly the biggest comfort blanket ever, which I’m now realising having graduated four months ago. Up until we’re 18 or 21, we don’t realise how secure the structure of education makes us feel until it’s gone.
The jump from being a teenager/young adult into the world of work is one that has been downplayed and often ignored. Treating it as a ‘I’m sure it’ll work out’ and not really thinking too much into how much things will change.
For those of us that went to university, we have already moved out and away from home comforts. But somehow that doesn’t always make it easier when you move out as a ‘proper’ adult.
There are lots of things to adjust to when stepping into the world of adulthood. Ranging from careers to new homes, friendships to relationships, finances to food, there are lots of ways in which we can find ourselves feeling a little lost and confused. This is totally understandable but is often overlooked, with many young adults today being criticised for their inability to adjust.
With the rapid changes in the world and society, it’s no doubt that we’re feeling rather unsure about our careers, lives and relationships and what we want from them. This is often received by adults as a sign of weakness, but really it should be seen as a great thing – we have all of these options and the ability to try lots of them out.
With all of this in mind, I have decided to put my passion for writing and helping other people together, creating a blog where people in a similar situation can feel more at ease and find help and advice. Posts will cover a range of topics that I feel are important to people in similar situations, covering ideas of careers, finances, travelling, food, entertainment and more.
While I am just one person, it is clear that a lot of people struggle at this time in their life. Leave a comment below with how you’re feeling about the gap between youth and adulthood and the things you are struggling with, and although I am no expert, I will try to cover these topics in a series of blog posts.
Such an interesting read! I can relate as I feel like in that exact same position right now! I will be honest I kind of feel a bit lost! not knowing what pathway to take next but it’s also a bit exciting 🙂
https://www.ashleighsmoments.com
Thank you! I hope my future blog posts will help you to feel a little less lost! 😊 definitely scary but exciting!
I just wrote a similar article – it’s a transition that often gets lost in the mix of all that’s going on but it can be a very challenging time for some
It’s something that’s so often overlooked!
Great post on a subject we all experience at some point (even multiple times throughout our lives) — it’s refreshing to read and serves as a reminder that sometimes we all get a bit stumped by life!
Thank you for your lovely comment. I think many people do forget how often this happens and that it is okay!
This is so accurate. I recently graduated from graduate school and education has always been a constant in my life. Life is all about change and getting out of your comfort zone, so let’s see what’s next. Thanks for the post!
It is a weird time in life, but also exciting! Thank you for the comment😊
I honestly miss school so bloody much, you don’t realise while you’re there how much you will miss it!
Love, Amie ❤
The Curvaceous Vegan
I know right, it’s such a bittersweet experience leaving! Thanks for the comment!